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I don't know where the prayer request is.
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I don't know how to let God handle my problems. My problem is that my husband looks at porn and match.com. Yet he seems to be a good husband and father to our adult children. I keep giving my problems to God because I believe He can fix things way better than me. I've been looking all over to find out how to post a prayer request and can't find the right place so it is here. Please pray for my husband and I. I have been listening to Brian almost every night for 3 years and things have really lifted. I just don't know what to do about this one last thing. He lies to me. When I ask him about it he says it is nothing and he doesn't "do anything". But he has lied about other things over the past 27 years. It's like I should hire a private investigator but I think if you think you need to hire one, the marriage is crap. But he has conquered drug and alcohol addiction and this is just another addiction. What do you all think I should do? I come from a family of care takers.
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marciak9 01/01/2012 22:45 |
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tina
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01/02/2012 10:38 |
I am so very sorry for what u are going through..my heart truelly goes out. Especially since I have been there as well. My second marriage was like that. He overcame alcohol but replced with another addiction. I prayed and prayed. I went to church when he would not..I had a 2 4 6 year old at the time. His child was the 2 year old. I just kept in the word at my lowest point I would sit on the floor next to our locked bedroom door and read the bible. I begged him to stop..I loved him so..and I just didn't know what else to do? This is my story..in no wa am I trying to tell you this is your marriage. God can change anyone..butt we all have free will my dear sweet friend. I just knew this was the mand I was suppose to be with.period. and I grew up without a father and that wasn't gonna happen again. But lie after lie and each locked door day..I no longer had peace. It was adultry..in my eyes no matter what he said.on oct 31 2006 I left him.my heart was shreaded and I screamed at god for answers..and none would come.for awhile I didn't want anything to do with god..I just didn't understand..but then its not our understanding. It is now 2012 lol and I am truelly married to who god chose for me. Looking back all the times I begged and pleaded..each time losing a little bit of respect for my self ..I. didn't realize god was trying to tell me each time to let go of this dream..he had something just waiting for me. Richard and I never fight we love each other unconditionally and no neither have been perfect..but looking back now I thank god every single day for richard and the knowledge and wisdom that god gave me..when it was right there in front of me all the time..I am on face book if you ever want to see our happiness..and love. Its tina rowe bursby I will continue to pray for you. I will pray that god will give you the kn0ledge and the strength to stay or go..because either way god loves you both..and as for my ex husband..if he had the chance to speak to your husband he would tell him. Stop this..first you r feeding one addiction for another and most importantly..he lost his life and his son when I left which he thought I would never do. He is saved now..and we share our son. But I had to get out of the way. For that to happen. In some ways I realize now..it was almost as if I was putting him of god? If that makes any sense? Anyway I hope I have helped in some small way..god bless you
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